Thoughts on the fresh new look of Locks and Chocolate

Saturday, December 12, 2009

Double Edge Sword

There are moments in this relationship I love, watching Lizbeth enjoy herself with her lovers, being teased/denied with a great build up to some amazing orgasms, We have been working a lot lately for us to find time for Lizbeth to get in her play time I have to help around house, laundry, cleaning etc, I hate it. Last night Lizbeth calls me and tells me she has been talking with Mike.Mike is one of her lovers she has known for years , he is well trusted within our world not to expose our little secret, he has attended vanilla parties and function with us.Lizbeth invited him over tonight, for dinner and whatever else he wants, I have to work all day , but I also have get things ready for her date....personally I am not really into the humiliation aspect of cuckolding, Lizbeth does enjoy certain aspects of humiliation., So my life sucks because I have so many cuckold chores to take care of, plus work,But my wife is great if everything goes as planned I should get to watch Lizbeth take Mike's 11 inch black cock tonight.We are also having vanilla friends over tonight which should make for a very interesting fun night, we will keep you posted.

Friday, December 11, 2009

Some Thanks and Some Giving

It was finally here , Not only was I looking forward to the usual Thanksgiving Day activities, Today is the 11th day of my denial ,I have been locked up ,not allowed to orgasm for 11 days, only let out twice for a couple of quick teasing/cleaning sessions.The teasing sessions were great Lizbeth brought me right to the edge, multiple times,for me the teasing is very euphoric, not sure what it is adrenaline or testosterone, but for a few hours after being teased to the edge, I get a nice buzz.

Our day shaped up like most American Homes on Thanks Giving Day.Lizbeth is a great cook so most of her day was spent in the kitchen, everyone in the house helped out from time to time, we all had a great Dinner and of course watched football.In the back of my head most of the day I was hoping that she wouldn't be to tired to set me free and let me release the cum that she had helped build up for almost two weeks.I was mentally preparing myself for disappointment in case she was to tired.I can't speak for others in the lifestyle but for me, denial/chastity, is great as long as their is teasing involved, denial with neglect for me is horrible.

After all of our guests left , all the dishes and food put away, we decide to go to bed.I made it in bed first I sleep naked so I was in bed with nothing but my cage on, hoping she would remember today was the day, praying she would want to play.Lizbeth sleeps naked as well , but she usually gets in to bed then removes her clothes, so most of the time i don't get to see her naked form. when we are in our teasing/denial phase she is very good at not allowing me to see her beautiful body.I new my prayers had been answered when she came out of her walk in closet wearing alittle sexy short pink robe , I could also see she had on some black stockings and heels which she knows drive me crazy.She had made plans with one of her long time lovers Phillip for this weekend coming up , she wanted to meet him at our local swingers/bdsm club, surrender her body to him and let him do anything he wants, while making me watch and perhaps letting everyone else watch,(more on this later) as she approached the bed looking sexy as hell, she asked "Do you think Phil would like me in this?" my reply"how could he not love you in that, or anything else ,or nothing at all, Phillip loves it when you let him use your body"

After pausing just a second to let me take in her sexiness she crawled her way into bed, climbing right on top of me. she brushes her face right up against mine, whispering in my ear, " since I will be seeing Phillip in 3 days , "You will not be getting any of his pussy,but if you do a good job licking his pussy I will let you cum".Lizbeth is a master at teasing, a big part of what she does is denying me things and pleasures, then she willingly allows her bulls those things.One of those things is Kissing , most of the time she will not allow me to kiss her deeply/passionately or use my tongue, or she only briefly allows me this great pleasure, often she pulls away, turns her cheek and tells me she doesn't want to kiss me, as she whispered my blocked entry into Phillip's pussy she dragged her lips across mine but only for a brief second, quickly pull away as my tongue touched her lips.Lizbeth rolled off of me unto her back, telling me," You need to get to work on Phillips pussy and you'd better take your time, you know how I like it."

I went to untie her robe but was quickly brushed away, "You don't need full access to my body to lick it". The robe was short enough to allow easy access to her , Lizbeth loves to be teased her self, slow kisses and gentle teasing touches on her thighs, the areas around her pussy, building her own excitement, she loves the slightest touch on her lips, often she will not allow on her clit for 10 minutes or more, ,I love being between her legs so I don't mind taking my time., laying on my stomach my cock still trapped in its cage it became painful as my hard on was straining against the plastic,being between her legs tasting her sweetness was worth all the waiting and the pain I was currently in.

I continued licking, kissing, probing her pussy with my tongue , she finally directed me to her clit, and it did not take long for her to go over the edge watching her body go through orgasm as she rocked on my tongue is always amazing..once she reaches orgasm she often becomes too sensitive so I had to stop. I moved up her body and encircled her nipple with my mouth and tongue. As she came back down, she lifted my head from her nipple by my hair and looked my starring me straight in the eye,"I need something in my pussy,bring me your key ,get the lube,"Lizbeth told me where the key was , as I made my way to get it,I thought she most be so horny she is going to let me have some pussy.I went to the drawer to locate my key, it was laying on one of her many black dildos she has, as she saw me reach in to the drawer, she said "bring my friend too,you didn't think I was going to fuck you did you?"

Back in bed she reached for the key and started to unlock me , but paused and pulled the key back out.Lizbeth grabbed my caged cock and fondled it"It sure looks small in there, lube up my black cock,for me"

As I lubed up her toy she made a few other comments on the size difference, Often when I use one of her Dildos on her I kneel beside her so she can stroke my cock, while I fuck her with the dildo, I have to mimic her motions on my cock with the Black Dildo, this way she lets me know how fast/slow or deep she wants it, but tonight she wanted to keep me locked and between her legs, so she could use her own hand two hands one working her clit the other controlling the big stick that was now stretching her.

As she worked the dildo in and out of her, she rubbed her clit and talked about Phillip, how is 11 inch black cocked filled her up so perfectly , how he knew exactly how to work her body. how she couldn't wait to see him to suck and please that big cock of his, returning the favor of pleasure that he gives her... it wasn't long before she had another orgasm ..... shaking, squeezing the thickness between her legs with her pussy... she turned involuntary on her side.... I could see her Pussy pulsing, quivering.

Lizbeth laid still finally letting go of her big black friend between her legs, I feared that her orgasms may have ruined her, which has happened in the past, when she cums like that she is done, spent.. and will simply tell me" Too bad I don't want to touch you, I don't want to tease you, I am satisfied"

It was my lucky day I guess She recovered and told me to lay back,she moved between my legs and unlocked me, taking her time, she torments me, taking forever to remove my chastity hardware.

She closed her robed continuing my visual denial, lubed up my cock, and let her magic hands go to work, after 11 days and the everything that just happened, I was ready to blow, as part of my training I am not supposed to cum, with out thinking about her, her pleasure , her being with her lovers.Lizbeth started talking about Phillip and what she was going to do to him, and what she wanted him to do to her, she knows exactly how to send me over the edge, when she brought up , that she wanted Phillip to fuck her in the ass,she added the fact that I had not been allowed in her ass for several years now was all it took.I had an amazing orgasm,shot cum a couple feet into the air.A very happy ending to my Thanksgiving

Tuesday, December 8, 2009

Tuesday, December 1, 2009

Teased and Denied PT 2

the small talk conversation continued, my tongue kept working, she pushed back using my finger to hit her g-spot, and it wasn't long I could feel her body starting to tremble....I could hear her trying to hide her pleasure in her voice.... from what I could tell from her shaking she had a great orgasm... Her man on the other end of the line had not detected a thing, she quickly rubbed her pussy all over my face all the time making small talk.

Still laying there naked on the bed blindfolded my cock excited and straining against its cage , I felt her get up off the bed , not wanting her bull to hear my voice I started to beg in cuckold sign language,my hands down on my cage unlocking the lock, then my hands up on my chest in the praying position, I kept repeating the two motions,back and fourth hoping to be released, her phone conversation continued, both going over schedules, looking for a time when they could meet, he was going out of town for the holiday, she was offering herself up almost anytime, I was a little shocked she was making her self so available,but was also very aroused that she would drop everything to be able to play with him, my prayers were answered as a felt her unlock the cage as the penis sheath taken off she said to him"I am am here and available for your pleasure any time you want" to hear her says those words to another man sent a jolt of excitement straight form my brain down to my penis.

She continued to remove my hardware, then I felt one of the my favorite things in the world, the cold lube dripping on to my cock, then two fingers started to rub the lube all over the head and shaft I was already close to exploding , it had been four days since my last ejaculation, four days locked up with no physical stimulation, hearing her talk with her bull I was in the redzone so to speak. Her grip changed and she was starting a full on hand job, as with most cucks I don't get to enter her pussy that often, blow jobs for me are a thing of the past both of the pleasures are saved for her lovers , so I have been trained and conditioned to love and crave her hand jobs.
My level of pleasure was growing quickly as was my frustration, I knew I was not allowed to come for nine more days,her bull asked where I would be for there next encounter, she replied he will be there watching, I may let him take pictures and video if her is a good boy .Her hand was picking up pace sliding perfectly up and down my penis,then she told him that I had been licking her pussy while they were talking and that she was teasing me with a hand job right now.

Now as part of our teasing and denial Lizbeth has learned to push me over the edge with her voice and what she says, if she talks about her desires for other men or what she wants , or what she enjoyed, she can set me off. while still stroking my cock she told her Bull my pussy licking was ok, but she needed him. Her exact words" I need to see you, I need you to fuck me", as the words escaped her mouth it was all I could take, I had to reach down ad stop her hand on moving on my penis, of I would have exploded , she stopped whisper in my ears those dreaded words "Put your cage back on" as I lay there rock hard, my balls full on the edge I almost like a scene from a prison movie the slamming of the cell door I heard the bedroom door shut, I could only dream of my the next time I wold be allowed some pleasure.

Friday, November 27, 2009

Lizbeth's Christmas List

I hope that everyone had a great Thanksgiving yesterday and for those brave souls who've gone out today on Black Friday, My heels are off to you. I had plans of doing my shopping online today but sadly most of the sites I was hoping to score some deals on have since crashed and burned.

So, I've decided to put a little Christmas wish list up here and see what happens. For those who are living in this lifestyle, you already know how expensive it can be and I certainly have expensive and good taste, but not everything is expensive and I'm sure there are easily affordable items to meet every budget and a nice way to give tribute.

Depending on the store, brand etc. My size can be anywhere from a 0 to a size 6.

Current Measurements:
115-120 lbs
36A bra (they may be small, but they work beautifully for me)
28.5" Waist
34.5" Hips
Shoe: 8.5 wide
Neck: 14" add at least 2" to necklaces
Wrist: 6" add .5" for bracelets
Ankle: Flexed 9", relaxed 8" for anklets

1. Post Secret Books. If you haven't already been exposed to Post Secrets, please take a minute to check out their site and I bet you will become a fan just as I have.

At one time I had all of the books, but I tend to share things that I love with others and sometimes those things don't make it back to Me. Currently I have 'A Lifetime of Secrets and I would love to have all of the other books in the series that Frank Warren has published. Great deals can be found on

2. Lingerie

3. Gift Certificates and Gift Cards:
Victoria's Secret (sizes above)
Secrets in Lace
Massage (professional)
Nice Hotels
Visa/AmEx Gift Cards
Restaurant Gift Cards
Ipod Gift Cards

4. Ipod Touch and Accessories

5. Godiva Chocolate (I detest fruit and chocolate together)

I guess that will do for now, check back later for updates.


Wednesday, November 25, 2009

A Fun Saturday Night

How in the world does time speed by so quickly? I meant to post about this sooner but life and the holiday sorta sidetracked me.

This past weekend I already had a night with my Bull planned, but an opportunity presented itself that I couldn't pass up. We had been talking with a cuck for some time and it was finally time to meet him for the first time. We met at a local restaurant and had some really good conversation and food.

I had planned on a little shopping trip to Victoria's Secret, but instead we walked over to a bookstore and spent some time looking at books and talking more. Time just blew by and before I knew it, caveman was telling Me it was time to get home so that I would have enough time to get ready for my real date of the evening.

Sadly, for now I need to get off of this computer and continue My preparations for Thanksgiving dinner tomorrow. I wish you all a wonderful holiday.


Friday, November 20, 2009

Teasing and Denial

As part of our play Lizbeth likes to lock me up in a chastity device, tease and deny me , the teasing can go on for anywhere from a week up to about 18 days is our current record.In my perfect world I get locked up, teased in various ways, denied intercourse, denied blow jobs, and get edged with her amazing hand jobs.I do get to preform oral sex, use my fingers , one of her dildos, or vibrators to please her, which really only increases the teasing/torment,and just about the time when both of us are climbing the walls, she brings in one of her Bulls/lovers I get to watch the the woman I love have some amazing orgasms, which completely drives me insane. when her passionate encounter is over we get to reconnect and I get my release, which are with out a doubt the best most intense orgasms I have ever had.sometimes I get my release during her time with her bull, sometimes later that day, and if she really has a great time and is completely satisfied I have to wait another excruciating day.

Doesn't she look great when she is satisfied

So right now I am just getting started on my 11 day stretch of no orgasms, with 9 days to go the teasing started today.While in this teasing mode she say things like she doesn't need me to satisfy her, she has her lover for that, she is bored with me and my cock...etc, one added little thing she will do sometimes while teasing is not allow me to see her naked body, so today after I asked if she could tease me or if I could please her, or both she told me to get naked but to put the blind fold on.I quickly did as she told me , stripped down, placed the blind fold over my eyes and laid down on the bed.I heard her enter the room anticipation raced through me, my cock still in its cage was hard. It took her a few minutes after she entered the bedroom to make it over to the bed, I could hear what sounded like her taking her own clothes off, then I felt her touch my legs she was running her hands over my thighs, and all around my locked up cock.Next I could feel her breath on my groin, and I quickly wished and hopped for her lips on my balls, I spoke up and asked her if she could remember the last time she gave me a blow job, she replied no, its been along time, I honestly could not remember either.Her blow jobs for the last couple years have been mostly saved for her lovers, which I think she only does to add to my torture, because I know she loves to give blow jobs, I have watched her when she is with her bulls she goes in to a trance sucking their cocks,she loves it so much on more than one occasion I have watched her sucking her lovers cock, then she will reach for the condom open it be ready to put it on her bull and then like a moth to a flame she will stop and her mouth will be drawn back to the cock in her hands, forgetting that she was ready to let him enter her.
I felt movement on the bed again, and then I felt the slightest most gentle touches of her tongue on my balls,she then took her fingernails and slid them into the slit on the front of my cage barely touching the head of my cock.It felt wonderful , it was at this time she told me she had been talking and texting one of her long time boyfriends, while she continued with the most slightest of touches she went on to tell me she was planning on seeing him very soon,I of course said that was fine with me(not that it matters how I feel about it) and asked her when. She replied not sure yet, that's when i felt movement on the bed again.
I could tell she was moving up my body, I wanted to see her body so badly I am very visual, a huge voyeur. I could tell her pussy was right above my eager mouth,

the wonderful view I was denied

she ever so slightly let it rest on my lips,I started to gently lick around both of her outer lips and up across the very top of her clit, she likes a slow tease on her pussy, tickling all areas before getting to direct stimulation on her clit
Lizbeth new I had some errands to run after she was done teasing me, she started to rub her pussy all of me telling me she wanted me to smell her on my face will I was out running around to further torment me(I have been very lucky to have had the pleasure of being with lots of women, Lizbeth has the best tasting, best smelling pussy I have even encountered).
Her hips moved, redirecting her clit on top of my tongue,I was lost in licking her when , out of no where I heard her speaking. I never stopped tonging her clit but my sense of hearing tried to lock on to the conversation, I could hear the voice on the other end of the line it and was the boyfriend she mentioned she wanted to see , she called him while sitting on my face, my cock was already hard but her calling him sent me into over drive.I could hear both of them perfectly, small talk, How are you?, how have you been, whats new etc? Her conversation with him was one of the things she enjoyed about him, they were friends, they were lovers, but she could talk to him about nonsexual things as well as the all the juicy things as well.
After ten years together I think I know her body very well, due to my own excitement I wanted to kick up hers as well, so I slowly inserted a finger, barely entering her, teasing her trying to make her want to take my finger inside her tight body... I didn't really push just holding it there, it wasn't long until she started to push back onto my finger, as she took it deeper I angled it to hit her g-spot.... the small talk conversation continued, my tonged kept working, she pushed back using my finger to hit her g-spot, and it wasn't long I could feel her body starting to tremble....I could hear her trying to hide her pleasure in her voice.... from what I could tell from her shaking she had a great orgasm... Her man on the other end of the line had not detected a thing, she quickly rubbed her pussy all of my face all the time making small talk.

To be continued

Tuesday, November 17, 2009

Double Tease

Lizbeth teasing me, me posting teasing you

Busting Our Cherry

We are a happy couple with ten years behind us, we have our problems just like most of the world, bills, work, etc,but in other ways we are very fortunate,we love to be together and in our ten years I think we may spent a total of three weeks apart.We have great communication when it comes to our sexuality.I would like to take a moment to thank My beautiful woman Lizbeth for granting me my desires and my fantasies for allowing me the time I have spent with other women for letting watch, photograph and video her time with other men.Together We have had the chance to experience almost every fantasy(swinging,bdsm,voyeurism,exhibitionism,cuckold interracial) the two of us could dream up with some fun and attractive people.

As I (Caveman) get older, the beautiful Lizbeth only gets better I am more and more drawn and excited by the cuckold lifestyle, which is the most extreme opposite of my experiences as a young man(bull). So the primary focus of our blogging adventures will be, on our cuckolding/hot wife adventures, how we came to this place and all of the good, bad and ugly associated with this lifestyle.Hopefully all good, No bad, as for ugly I cant promise, only because of my own involvement,And We often disagree on the attractiveness of her very lucky choices in lovers.